Reflecting on a transformative year in my life, where my baby boy turned one, I have learned invaluable lessons that have shaped my perspective. Here are some key takeaways:

1. Prioritizing mental health over job satisfaction is crucial. I made the decision to quit a toxic job, realizing that no amount of compensation is worth compromising my well-being.

2. Instead of questioning if you are ready for a baby, ask yourself if you truly want one. While no one is fully prepared, the desire for a child will give you the strength to overcome any challenges.

3. Women possess remarkable strength, from pregnancy to nurturing. I am proud of myself for exceeding expectations, managing freelance work and a full-time job while caring for my baby.

4. Trust in divine timing. Although I was disappointed when I didn't get a desired job, I later realized it would have been overwhelming for my family at the time.

5. Understanding and empathizing with your mother's insecurities is important. Her wisdom and guidance will become meaningful in your own life.

6. During the first year of motherhood, some may perceive you as distant. Prioritize self-care and surround yourself with supportive friends and family.

7. Time is precious. Cherish the moments spent with your child, as they pass by quickly.

8. Motherhood brings physical exhaustion but also deep happiness and inner peace.

9. Allow your baby to develop at their own pace, avoiding societal pressures that can impact their self-esteem.

10. Embrace the challenges of motherhood, as they lead to the most rewarding moments in life.

11. Prioritize your well-being and that of your family above all else.

12. Self-care is subjective. Prioritize rest and sleep as your ultimate form of self-care.

13. Choose a partner who shares responsibilities and embraces co-parenting. The more we co-parent, the happier the child is.

14. Let go of guilt and perfectionism. Find balance and prioritize your well-being without compromising love and care for your loved ones.

15. Babies have the power to heal unresolved issues. Embrace imperfection and allow them to learn and grow through their own experiences.

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year ❤️